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Dan Gardner's avatar

Hi everybody, in the original version that was emailed out, I made a dumb mistake in the math. It's corrected here. *sigh*

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Morrey Ewing's avatar

Thank you for this. So I see two possible responses to recognizing and internalizing how utterly random life - writ large or writ small - can be.

Try to ignore a randomness you cannot control and walk softly and propitiate the fates, whoever you imagine them to be. Maybe the fickle finger of fate will pass on by (or single you out for an unmerited blessing).

Or, much harder, try to live a life in which you are a blessing to others so that they think of how lucky it is that fate has used you as its instrument in their life. The ‘no regrets whenever you get taken’ kind of life.

The odds that you meet up with someone who lives their life in that way may be vanishingly small, but how transformative it can be when you do.

And ironically, this is the one scenario whose odds you can improve, if you adopt it as your own personal goal. You could make that unlikely person yourself.

You have certainly caused me to think…

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