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Luticia's avatar

Thanks for the puff of "fresh air,“ voicing this trend of a sort of toxic individualism, and for existing as a counter-culture that is highly valuable today. As our social groups are subdivided into a minutiae of interests and preferences, and with a dwindling ability (or interest) to empathize, understand, or connect, we seem to be diluting any substance there once was in our collective culture into a formless, directionless ˋArmy of Ones’. Further than merely fearing to offend thy neighbor by sharing views or interests, I think we’ve now trodden into territory of something worse... fearing to bore our neighbor with anything outside their easily cultivated and fed pallet of individualized interests.

We used to gently self-mock our teenage selves in the 90’s, ‘I’m different... just like everybody else.’ The celebration of our uniqueness has contributed to the collective loneliness.

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Stan's avatar

Lots to think about. Whenever I read something like this I tend to think in what places is this not happening. Sports comes to mind. The big teams and top players are still holding the attention of large percentages of people. It maybe more global with European soccer grabbing more followers outside Europe than ever.

I don’t have data on this and as someone without the sports fan gene I don’t comprehend it well.

It will also be interesting to see if the growing trend in schools banning phones has an effect.

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