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Susan Riley's avatar

Such a valuable, mind-expanding perspective. Thank you, Dan. As the parent of two 30+-somethings, I will try to take hope.

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Mark Bourrie's avatar

I forwarded this piece to my three kids, who are all in their twenties. I was tossed into the job market in the late 1970s, when youth unemployment was very high. (There really was a different experiece for people born before about 1952 and those born afterwards. Look at the birth years of the members of late 20th century mega-bands.) The first thing a kid (and their parents) can do to stay sane is to ignore the very American, very 20th century model of the stand-alone nuclear family and go back to the family of our ancestors, and of many people in the world now, where kids and parents, and often grandparents, support each other. That means pushing back at pop culture norms and not struggling on their own. As for jobs, this is a country of pals. Networking does a lot more good and is easier on your emotions than sending resumes that are never read and feeling rejected when nothing comes of them.

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